For many women and couples, anal sex is the final frontier: a place that piques their curiosity , but continues to perplex them and even make them apprehensive. Will anal sex hurt? Can I orgasm from it? Is it messy? Which positions work best?
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If it feels good, anything goes! Cisgender men and people assigned male at birth have a prostate , so in these cases a butt orgasm results from stimulating the prostate. You can stimulate the P-spot through the perineum, which is the runway of skin between the balls and the anus. This is how anal orgasms work for cisgender women and people assigned female at birth. Anal penetration indirectly stimulates the A-spot in the vagina. The A-spot, or anterior fornix if you want to get fancy, is located deep inside the vagina — around 5 or 6 inches in. It feels like intense waves of pleasure that begin deep inside your body and radiate through the rest of your body.
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Research shows that stimulating multiple body areas at once—for example, your clitoris, cervix, and yes, nipples—lights up an area of the brain that heightens all of the individual sensations you feel. The result? A stronger, more colorful orgasm. You can also nix the performance pressure that often comes with fixating on what's between your legs, says Richmond. Twisting, rubbing, clamping, pulling, or nibbling by a partner, of course your nipples can even lead to a standalone nipple orgasm that won't disappoint.
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